Wednesday, October 9, 2013

3 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY IN AN ARGUMENT

In many relationships, these so called fights have reached the top most limits where there are couples who go berserk! Due to this, couples in relationship say the things that they usually do not mean to say, or in other words, they are forced to say it!

Here, we explain to you some of the common things which couples in the past and till today say to their partners when they are fighting. When you get into an argument with your partner, make it a point to stay calm, composed and then voice out. Lets take a look at things you should not say to your partner when you are fighting. Never...

1. Call names – fool, retard, stupid, dummy, idiot you should have known better. These things are off limits; they are degrading and should not enter your conversations.

2. Tell someone to shut up – No matter how you say those two words during a disagreement they will only add fuel to the fire, not helping to calm the situation at all.

3. Bring the other person’s family into the disagreement – you are just like your mother, if your father was around, you’re a mama’s boy, go get your big sister I’m ready for her too. This is way below the belt. You have now put the other person in a position to defend themselves and their family. They are going to revert to their corner or come out swinging harder than ever as a matter of protection.